While you may be overwhelmed at the thought of arranging child custody with your ex, you can support your conviction and ease the process by continuing to show integrity, flexibility and respect. At Hope Family Law, P.C., we have helped many families in Texas as they are navigating the tricky process of getting divorced and reaching an agreement about the care of their children.
Even though your first instinct may be to get frustrated with your ex and be relentless in pursuing an agreement that is perfect for your needs, your outcome may be much more rewarding if you are able to maintain perspective. For one, try to remember that despite your ex’s inability to make a marriage work, he or she is still a valued parent and an important person in the lives of your children.
According to CNN, even the smallest disagreements have the potential to morph into prolonged, expensive and frustrating legal battles if you and your spouse are unwilling to compromise and work civilly to reach an agreement. Experts recommend that some things you can do to support your effort of being agreeable with your former spouse include the following:
- Show gratitude for the time you do get to spend with your children and make every moment count.
- Refrain from giving in to the temptation to get upset even when you feel that you are being treated unfairly.
- Do your best to maintain a realistic perspective even when your current situation seems bleak.
- Be the best parent you know how and allow your ex to do the same, especially when it is his or her turn to spend time with your children.
When you are able to act respectfully and articulate your feelings and concerns without giving way to anger, you may be much more satisfied with the outcome. For more information about arranging a custody agreement, visit our web page.